Friday, September 15, 2006

Of being anonymous...





Why do people do things anonymously?

Some like to remain anonymous when donating stuffs to charity, in order not to be seen as proud. That's a good thing, because even Islam encourages such act, as already stated in the Quran.

Some reporters/writers adopt anonymous pen names to protect themselves in the line of duty. They do this so that people won't attack them on the street due to the hot scoop that they have just written. Most of the gossip columnists use pseudonyms to write bout the scandalous scoop on the famous artists' activities. However, they are still exposed to the danger of lawsuits.

Bloggers too hide behind pen names or nicks to protect their real identity. I don't say that all bloggers do this. Some are brave enough to write everything about themselves plus publishing their full pictures on their blog. I applaud their courage of doing so because as you can see, I too uses a pen name to blog.

What is my reason of being anonymous?

Well, when I first started blogging, I was still working with company X. Hence, I didn't want any of the management staff to find my outsource domain where I bitch about work and also life in general. I considered it to be a private domain and would like to keep it that way. So I opted for the anonymous nick (and hoped that people will respect my space and just play along with it) and managed to keep this blog under the radar for a while.... until few of my colleagues found out about it. Then all hell broke loose and now one of them is trying to irk me with his 'charming' wits... urgh..!

Anyway, back to the subject of anonymity...

Recently, I have discovered that some people use anonymity as a tool to attack people (wah macam weapon of mass destruction la pulak). They hide behind the anonymous nick and just lash out their most poisonous venom in hope to hurt people. These people might think that what they are doing is just out of sheer fun. However, they didn't stop to think of the impact of what they have done on their innocent target.

Ok.. the person might not be an innocent target. He or she might have lured you to do what you have done. They might have taunted you to make fun of the things that they have written on their blogs. But still, that doesn't give you the right to make fun or even humiliate them in public. Or should you fail to control the urge to do so, why do it anonymously? Don't you have any balls to reveal your true identity?

Woah... I might have gotten carried away with this post. If I'm not careful I might be the next target of the cruel world of anonymous bloggers/commenters. Well, I was just trying to express my thought... If you have any problem with that, sue me!

What say you?





binx: it's a cruel cruel world out there...


9 comments:

Anonymous said...

i'm exposing stuff waaatt. i have no qualm on publishing my email correspondences with the psychotic Mr. Bee-stung-lips, kan?

Anyway, i did once left a anonymous comment (a nice-no-harsh-tone-no-humiliation comment) at someone's blog. i have a different view than the blogger and i want to make it one-off.

Oklaaahh....maybe i dun have the balls, well...if i have that balls...i think i would be very afraid and super worried.

i.am.a.girl. :P

Anonymous said...

mereka telah kehilangan bola mereka...

well, wat i wanted to say bout the anon uve put into good writing. and i think uve done a great job here mate.

i still think dat itu anon x der bola... if dia ada pon mesti beliau telah kehilangannya

ok mate, time to work mate...
ur mate,

En. Raja

Amiruddin Karim said...

BEing Anonymous... hmmm..

Anonumously lashing out to others is just another act of coward.. which sadly to see.. most Asians picking that skills very fast...

Azer Mantessa said...

1. if my clients found i've been blogspotting, naya oooooooooo

2. i like my nick :-)

Anonymous said...

tq guys for the attention i'm getting.

I am so happy.

But the question is, what has Binx done to deserve this?

Well don't just ask me.

Binx, kindly answer my last question on your YM? Did you? Din't you do it? I've been waiting for 1 month for the answer... But i guess the answer won't matter now.

:)

Tq.

Well, i won't proceedany further.

Well Jj, my last visit to your website. Since i've been blacklisted.

bye2.

have a nice day.

Mr Sombong.

binx said...

ms gila glamer:

sungguh sesuai nick anda.. kekeke

next time u dont agree with someone.. just comment as urself laa.. takde hal nya.. i bet that person wont lash out nya laa..

thank god u dont have balls.. if not i'd be worried too!
:p


en. raja:

saya pun rasa dia kehilangan bolanya.. nak tlg dia carik bola dia tak?
muahahaha...


amir etcetera:

very true indeed..!


azer mantessa:

u never leave rude comments kan.. so fret not there mister..

yeah, i like ur nick too..!
:)


mr sombong:

u really got issues, dude!

thewailer said...

anonymous just won't cut for me, I like semi-anonymous hehehehe

demonsinme said...

ME LADY BINX:

A gift for you...

THE LAND EAST FROM HERE

there is a place in the east,
where man once were treated as burden beast,
and tears fertelize another's bliss,
where whiplash would replace a kiss,
live a man with part of his mind amiss,
forgoting the day a kris fought a christ,
remembering the day filled with blessing of a hiss,
loving the sap from a whore tities,
lavishing in lavender confusing tease.

there is a place opposite the west,
where man once laid in unholy rest,
and laughter is known by the screaming laughter of a warrior crest,
and virtues where kept in buried heavy chest,
live a man known least than best,
who wore rags of the players of chess,
and think of thoughts seen to other no more than a mess,
and held high no higher than a slave shoe dress.

there is a place in east and west mid,
where man's heart hid,
not knowing where he would bid,
in a name lost in two creed,
or to take the two composite,
or left it where lost wills writ,
knowing knot why his papa grits.

binx said...

thewailer:

i know u do...
:D


demonsinme:

once again.. nice string of words there mister... beautifully written..

thanks!
:D