Things that I have gone through for the past few days....
1.
We has rushed all the way across town just to find out that we had to wait for almost an hour for the owner of the bridal boutique to arrive at her shop. When the owner came, we found out that the wife was not around and we can't have our 'fitting' session on that day! What was the point of making an appointment when you can't keep your promise?
2.
We were rushing for a wedding reception in Serdang when Mr Judge suddenly hit on the emergency breaks because the idiot driver in front of our car suddenly decided to stop without any warning. That had caused me to jolt forward and and hit the glove compartment in front of me. I now have a purple bruise on my upper right arm.
3.
My cousin, who had earlier promised to prepare all the decoration for my wedding favours and hantaran, had suddenly contracted one of her mood swings and had caused me unnecessary stress. She had screwed up all the wedding favour boxes and now I am left with 10 days to repair the damages. On top of that, since her work was not up to my standard, I had to engage the service of my mother's friend to decorate all my hantaran. I did not want to take the risk of the hantaran to turn into another disaster. Luckily mom's friend was kind enough to accept my request at the very last minute.
4.
On our way back from our 'fitting' session for the wedding costume for Mr Judge's reception yesterday, we had encountered another test from Him. We got into a car accident as we were about to leave Shah Alam. Again, another idiot driver decided to stop in the middle of a roundabout exit and it was just too late for Mr Judge to hit the breaks and BANG....! Don't worry, both of us are still in one piece. The only things that were damaged: my car's bumper. our patience and Mr Judge's wallet. Kesian dia.
I don't know what other 'test' or curve ball that He will throw at us next. However, I am glad that despite all the challenges thus far, both of us still managed to suck it up and stay strong. Not even once did we blame each other on the incidents that had happened. I belive that He was just testing our patience and also the strength of our bond.
Most kakak-kakak at the office kept telling me to becareful during these few days, before the wedding, as they said that this is the time when the bride will go through the "darah manis" period. I don't really know what that means but somehow I have a feeling that it means that this is the period where things can go wrong and it is best for you to keep yourself away from trouble. Betul ke my theory nieh?
binx: stresssssssss
