Straight and simple! Wish real life is as simple as that.
I have always admired women who can confess their true feelings like Meredith did to Dr. McDreamy. This is because I can never get the courage to actually tell someone that I like him. Never!
I can't say that I didn't try to muster the courage. I did try. I tried dropping hints, and knowing how blur guys can be.. they just don't get it. However, when the right moment came for me to blurt out those obvious words, somehow the guy would say something first that will make me chicken out. Then I will end up kicking myself under the table for being so foolish and for not confessing earlier.
Once, I tried to tell a guy how I truly felt and was first welcomed with news that he just met the girl of his dreams - not me of course... That's what you get for being totally secretive of your feelings. It felt like he had just put a knife through my heart (Binx the drama queen!)...
How did you guys do it? Do share your confession stories...
binx: no i'm not in love..
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binx!!! arrghhh.. I wish I could do that 3 yrs ago!
Once, I wrote the 'confession' script in my head and told myself, no matter what happen, I'm gonna tell him at dinner... then came dinner, and 'the line' just stucked in the throat and never came out.. I end up being silent for the whole hour of dinner with him! And He thought I hated him :(
I'm just like you lah.. NEVER! Even if I die then reincarnate 7-8 times, I still don't dare to do that.
"I tried dropping hints, and knowing how blur guys can be.. they just don't get it"
It's scientifically proven that it doesn't work that way but yet women keep doing it. Why? :P kekek
Cheers!!! :D
omigawd, omigawd! nazlin n i used to mimick her using that line. sounds so irritating la, the voice. hahahahah...
errr..that was me, eddycute. hee..
ubisetela:
i guess it should come naturally kut..
but if we wait for that time to come.. it might be too late kan...
oh well...
hyelbaine:
maybe us girls wanted to believe that guys are NOT blur.. and are actually very receptive towards our emotions...
:p
eddycute:
yeah... it does sound a tad bit whinny kan.. hehehe
alamak binx...guys like me are chicken most of time too..hahaha...only when the rubber hits the road, you can't sleep for seven days straight and if the hints are all so obvious, then...I'll consider to tell...consider je tu hahaha
thewailer:
consider eh... hehehe
maybe the time havent come for u to reveal ur feelings...kan?
alaa...guys also like that waaan, apatah lagi demure sopan creature like us ;) kinda think of it i'm so good at advising ppl "c'mon, just tell him, you got nothing to lose". Hek ko, u got nothing to lose! ngajar orang pandai..sindri pun tak brani.
in a mean time...just wish..
*this deserves a konprens!!
i would nvr have such courage to pull the plug and let out my feelings juz like that...
NEVER! My bad, and i know that.
Probably someday, binx dearie?
At least we do it once in our lifetime? amcam, ada berani? :-P
teek:
tau takpe...
so apa lagi...
"DC, pick me... choose me.. love me...!"
*lol*
dsaint:
i guess u r rite.. we girls sometimes do that too... hehehe.. pecah rahsia..
:p
psstt.. i nak the free fanclub t-shirt can ah?
freak & geek
me brani? no wayyyyyyy...
ketaq lutut ok..
but maybe we SHOULD try kan..?
er...
I'm bad at confessions.
and I only did when I knew that the guy just might (ok, more like 70% at least) have had something for me too. I'm such a chicken! LOL!
Hmm...
Did that confession thingy 2-3 times. Didn't work because it wasn't mutual (read: I je yang rasa). But the two times I responded instead of making the first move, things didn't work out either. Because in the end, the mutual feelings are not there.
So realistically, perhaps a woman should only risk doing a confession of loving a guy if the woman is more than 95% sure that the feeling is mutual. Of course me being me, never really learn that. What's more important is that I tried and make myself heard and known. Have no control over the other party's response...(although the hope is sure sky high one..)
Heh. Does this make sense?
may:
ain't we all...
no worries babe...
u have lots of guys proposing already ;)
bayah:
u r one gutsy girl..
;)
dsaint:
hah! u wish....
and u r gonna be a dad? u sure u r ready for that?
:p
Binx dearie,
Grumpy old man here. This confession thinggy is a little over-rated. Which reminds me of Ronan Keating's "You say it best, when you say nothing at all..."
The best relationships I've had were where our feelings for each other were 'felt' rather than 'heard'. Nothing needed to be said. We simply 'understood'.
Come to think of it, if you need to tell him how you feel for him to make him understand, then he's probably an idiot: he doesn't deserve you.
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