Tuesday, December 26, 2006

Confession of a 'pening' Binx



You go out on a harmless coffee 'date' with a guy, not expecting any magic-mambo-jambo thing to happen and you ended up being bugged with endless sms every single minute of the day... Am I THAT irresistible (NOT!) or is he THAT desperate? I really think it's the latter... hahaha of course lar rite!

I really don't understand the situation. I can't say that the coffee outing was anything out of the ordinary... In fact, it was rather a one-sided meeting (a very boring one actually...), where the guy did all the talking, mostly about himself, his passion for photography and his work. I even had to hold back the urge to yawn a couple of times out of politeness.

After we've said our goodbyes, I thought that would be the last time that I will hear from him. Oh was I wrong... I received an sms as soon as I got home, saying that he just reached his house. And another few hours after that saying that he's going to sleep. Hmmmm..... Since when did he decide that he needed to report his every move to me?

This happened almost everyday. He tried to ask me out again the next day, which I politely declined. And the day after that.. And the day after that.. And the day after that.. Until I ran out of excuses to give him, and don't know how to tell him that I wasn't interested to go out and hear him ramble about himself for another hour or so...

I feel so rimas rite now. I can't even go out with my friends without having him sms'ing me asking my whereabouts... @$#!%@%#$@&**#^... I know I should tell him something soon, cause he doesn't seem to be getting the message.. However, I really don't know how to do so...

HELP!




binx: why do i attract lalats all the time?

7 comments:

Wardatul said...

Been there! I think the guy is trying to appear as this sensitive metrosexual guy who is oh so ready for a relationship but without knowing he is actually making girls run away. My advice would be, without hurting is feelings is to.. just lay low (ke?)He'll have to get the message somehow.

*at least u attract lalats, I have to attract fungus and scums

FairyGodmother said...

hehehehe...be honest lah to him..at least even if it hurts...it is only for a short time...rather than leading him on...and it helps him save his phone bill! Kenapa cupid likes to shoot the wrong bum? :p

binx said...

princess:

thanks for the tips.. am trying my best to lay as low as possible.. really hope that he gets the msg soon...

*have u tried using toilet duck to get rid of those fungus n scums? *winks*


jasmine's bonda:

save his phone bill? hahaha.. ooook.. i shall try...

tuh laa.. cupid tuh tak minum coffee kut in the morning..
:D

Anonymous said...

Dont Pick up his calls.. but u never know he might be the 1..hehheh or just tell him the truth..he might change or might not..or damn im out of excuses for u too

Anonymous said...

ubi said(donno why i cant use my login)

well... he found you irresitible la kot.. hehehe
another self obsessed fly... next time use insect repellent, ok. :)

binx said...

anonymous @ fujitsu:

hahaha.. thanks for the excuses.. but then again, the guy never calls.. he just sms!

see.. i told ya it's hard to come up with excuses.. but i still dun know how to confront him..


ubisetela:

i dun think im irresistible lar u.. he just needed someone to listen to him talk kut...

aaaah.. thanks for the tips!

*binx stocking up on insect repellent.. eh kalau guna shieldtox ok tak?
;)

Unknown said...

actually binxie.. that was how i met my hubby. from what i thought was a lalat, it actually became my honeybee
alamak.. jiwang lak